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A mother’s grief is unlike any other. 
Her care should be, too.

Grieving Hearts

Welcome to Our Website

If you are a mother who has lost a child,
we are deeply sorry.

We understand your pain.

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We hope you find something here that helps you.​​

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Mom Support Group
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There is no single path through the loss of a child.
Our grief is immeasurable, and the journey forward is deeply personal.
You are welcome here, exactly as you are. 

 

Who We Are

We are mothers forever changed by the loss of a child. We know the effects from the gap in support for grieving moms—one often unseen by others. Our promise is simple: every mother who reaches us will receive the care, understanding, and resources we longed for. We are here —fully and wholeheartedly.

Why We Exist

All grief is difficult, 

After losing a child, mothers often feel profoundly lost and alone—despite the love and support that may surround her.​ 

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Her purpose, identity, and view of life can be shattered.

 

The changes are much more than emotional; she will be affected physiologically, neurologically, and psychologically.

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She is suddenly at far greater risk of mental illness, early death, divorce, and suicide.

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With only 3–5 days of paid bereavement leave, countless mothers lose their pay, benefits, and even their jobs regardless of whether she is the head-of-household, has other children, or in the depth of her trauma. It happened to us.

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Her grief is disenfranchised, shadow grief—because it is a loss that is most misunderstood and never leaves. It will return in waves for the rest of her life. There is no such thing as getting over it or moving on.​

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Most grief resources serve all types of loss, and when she turns to these supports, she can still feel completely alone

 

We are keenly aware, and the evidence shows, she needs her own type of support; and the greatest help often comes from another grieving mother. Tragically, we are invisible to each other.

What We Do

We provide specialized support and education, small-group healing activities, art-based therapy, and other comforting gatherings that provide connection, understanding, and opportunities to speak our child's name...

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We actively reach out to let mothers know we are here, so no one walks through the darkest time alone…

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We raise public awareness so our communities can better understand and support a mother’s grief...

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Although some of us are clinicians, most are not. We are all mothers who've lost our child, in some cases, more than one, and we are walking this path together.... 

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Coming this Spring


The Grieving Hearts Healing Series (GHHS)
GHHS is a mother-specific, peer-led grief program created by three licensed therapists who are themselves bereaved mothers, combining clinical expertise with the lived experience of child loss.

The program addresses how losing a child affects everything: a mother’s body, mind, relationships, faith, and sense of who she is.
Each session offers a trauma-informed, compassionate space where mothers can speak freely, honor their child, and rebuild identity at a gentle, realistic pace. Its approach is grounded in psychology, provides peer connection, and the maternal perspective that only mothers who have lived this loss can authentically teach.

A mothers grief is unlike any other, her care should be too.

Healing begins
when we find each other.

To be notified of future  gatherings

Based in Northern California.

 

© 2025 by grieving-hearts.org.

Web Support by DoneWrightMedia.com

 

For more information
Call or text Michael’s mom,
Dr. Genny Lou-Barton, PsyD
President & Co-Founder, Grieving Hearts

(916) 542-8812

If you don’t feel ready to talk,
you can text “HI” and simply tell me your child’s name.

Grieving Hearts - For Mothers By Mothers 

IRS recognized tax-exempt 501(c)(3)

 

Your donations are tax-deductible. 

 

 

Grieving Hearts is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are in crisis, please call 911 or visit your nearest healthcare provider.

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